These 2 Words [Someday When] Guarantee You're Wasting Your Life - Episode 56

[00:00:00] Hi, it's Kate Wilder here with another manifestation episode. Today we're going to talk about 2 words that many people are living with that is the ultimate manifesting block. These words are Someday When. Someday when I'm retired. Someday when the kids are grown.

[00:00:17] Someday I'll get to the gym membership when I'm not so embarrassed to go. Someday when I get the nerve, I'll start my business. Someday when I feel better. Someday I'll make that decision when I'm not so terrified.

[00:00:29] Listen, I've lost 2 siblings tragically and I watched my beautiful sister waste her entire life. The night she died, she told me she knew she wasted it all. She was more talented than I could ever be. She was witty and funny. She was loved by everyone.

[00:00:47] She was intelligent and skilled. She had everything. But her choices were different from mine. I admired her, tried to help her, encouraged her despite everything she gave up on her dreams and never regained her life. And a few hours later she was gone.

[00:01:02] She made the choice to waste a perfectly blessed life. One where she could have been and had anything she wanted had she just tried. So whether you're an addict or not, whether you live with clinical depression or another

[00:01:16] illness or whether you're just terrified to take risks and make a damn decision, you need encouragement. Someday when is the most limited thought that you can use? It makes you think you've got all the time in the world justifying putting off your dreams.

[00:01:32] If you're waiting for some other time before you start living as you want to, it means that you're gambling on the biggest of all of life's assets. Time. Someday when causes a life less lived.

[00:01:45] If you're staying in a sad situation because you've given up on life or are too judgmental to make a change, maybe you're content with that. And that's fine. But I believe for most of us there's a part of us that wants to be more.

[00:01:58] If you just believe in yourself and take action, do things that scare you. If you're unwilling to take risks then don't expect life to deliver miracles. If you're willing to start at the beginning, you can do anything.

[00:02:12] I absolutely hate everything about my videos and I'm so self-critical you can't imagine. I'm embarrassed every time I upload and wonder which friends I'll lose after they see what I'm doing. There's not much more embarrassing than burying your soul and your dream for the entire world to see.

[00:02:28] I encourage you today to get your head out of the sand and do something bold with yourself. Share it here, stake your claim, decide to do something you want that's out of your normal comfort zone. Stop being afraid. There's nothing to be afraid of. Do something. Anything.

[00:02:44] Get started. Be willing to look like you're an idiot. Why do you believe that you can keep putting off your dreams thinking you'll still be here in 20 years? Five years, one day? Why do you think the rules of life and time don't apply to you?

[00:02:58] So you can wait till tomorrow to figure it out and keep being too terrified to make a decision. This is the only life you've got so why settle? Why not go for it and just believe you can and so what if you make a mistake? Who cares?

[00:03:14] That's just life. It's what it's for. It's our playground to make mistakes and try and get back up and do again. What is so scary about change? It's exciting. Change is how the world works. Change is expansion and growth.

[00:03:29] The universe rewards people who take control of their destinies even in the face of fear and they go for it anyway. Even in the face of ridicule they give it their best shot.

[00:03:40] How do you know what you're capable of if you don't put it on the line and test it? You don't even know. You're much stronger than you even believe. You were born as a one in a billion chance to be you. Why waste it?

[00:03:54] Why sit there wasting away a perfectly good life and being afraid to do something? Waiting for someday when is like being a walking dead person. You're just walking around in a fog just waiting for what? Do something. Decide. Dig in. Make someday when start today.

[00:04:12] Take a small step. One little baby step. Or a big one. My preference. Look at my episodes about getting clear on your manifestations and why they don't happen. Learn from my mistakes. I've shared a lot of them here.

[00:04:26] There's a lot of ideas that aren't the same experiences as others out there so if you make a comment on what you're going to do or even just say yes, someone else will support you too. There's power in positive energy where two are more gathered.

[00:04:41] Train your mind for positivity, techniques, ideas and inspiration. If you liked this video, please subscribe, please hit the bell and come back again and let's inspire each other. You have a beautiful day and I know you're going to go do something hard today that you

[00:04:56] put off but someday when is right now my friend. Happy manifesting. I'll see you in the next one.